Go off the "personal person" sentence I'd say Taehyung, we don't really know a lot about him nd he keeps a lot to himself lol, although I myself am not army, they're really sweet guys with well a not so bad fan base i can say.
Who judges them... huh? That depends, but I'd say that it's not always people judging BTS but people judging other people. So little hate BTS has but if you think about fans or people who like BTA judging other fans or haters saying “People only like bts because of their looks” I hear this all the time but I feel that some people lie about that and try discriminating other people thus people judge other people more.
If i got the question right then i hope my answer was usefull :') gl
